Random thoughts
Was pondering on how television(media) always has shows stereotyping guys as bastards who either break their promises and cheat on their girlfriends/wives with other women. Are we really like that? Are we guys really so fickle? It really makes one wonder. It could be true to a certain extent...with some real-life issues surfacing with concrete proof of guys being assholes and be the ones that end the relationship. Is it considered a fling, a wild attempt at finding love or a process where we find out who we really are with the opposite gender and what we really want/ look out for in our desired mate. Survival of the fittest?
Hmm, another point of wonder is that why do we always look at the negative aspect of life. Sure, we have ups and downs in life...and we get thrown all sorts of shit. But then again, to every flipside has an upside. Without the downs, will we ever cherish the ups? We usually never cherish what we have till its gone, taking people and stuff for granted. Of course, some people might argue that looking on the bright side all the time would mean that one is gullible, easily trusting and a fool that can be suckered or cuckolded. Rather, it's the lesser of the two evils, "giving is better than receiving" as a joy on the face of another brings about joy within yourself. Although we may not solve all our problems or other people's problem. It brings about comfort and relief and lightens the severity of the situation. It brings about hope of a better tomorrow. Should we have faith and not doubt? To doubt is but easy. To have faith is hard. Many a times, we waver in our beliefs and succumb to pressure. It's hard...yes....there are temptations and easier short cuts that people usually take. Yet, if we can persevere and go through it, we will come out stronger, tougher and more mature.
Really hope that I can overcome any obstacle with the help of GOD and my friends. Yes, this world is really quite messed up...but lets make the most of it while we are still here. Let us be overcomers of this world rather than followers. :)
Hmm, another point of wonder is that why do we always look at the negative aspect of life. Sure, we have ups and downs in life...and we get thrown all sorts of shit. But then again, to every flipside has an upside. Without the downs, will we ever cherish the ups? We usually never cherish what we have till its gone, taking people and stuff for granted. Of course, some people might argue that looking on the bright side all the time would mean that one is gullible, easily trusting and a fool that can be suckered or cuckolded. Rather, it's the lesser of the two evils, "giving is better than receiving" as a joy on the face of another brings about joy within yourself. Although we may not solve all our problems or other people's problem. It brings about comfort and relief and lightens the severity of the situation. It brings about hope of a better tomorrow. Should we have faith and not doubt? To doubt is but easy. To have faith is hard. Many a times, we waver in our beliefs and succumb to pressure. It's hard...yes....there are temptations and easier short cuts that people usually take. Yet, if we can persevere and go through it, we will come out stronger, tougher and more mature.
Really hope that I can overcome any obstacle with the help of GOD and my friends. Yes, this world is really quite messed up...but lets make the most of it while we are still here. Let us be overcomers of this world rather than followers. :)
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